Relations: May 2010

No one on Earth is perfect and everyone know this, Its just that if you know your weakness you can work on it to overcome the same. A best describer would be the person himself who can describe and judge on his own according to his strength and weakness. I think this is the high time now that I should start working on myself so that I should not relate myself into some consequences I have been through. Right now while writing all this stuff I am thinking of all my weaknesses on which I need to work and on which I am working.

Things on which I need to work

1. Saving:- No one on this planet can help you If you yourself is not financially strong. Need to follow the policies of an Insurance Company before they sell any policy to you, they say "anything can happen anywhere and anytime", you never know when you would be in need of funds for your basic needs. You can't ask for money from your family and friends if you are employed, and also asking people to lend me money is not my cup of tea. I have my own attitude.

2. Spend Less Money:- Though I know its very much related to the point above, but If I am not going to control this my first point would not come into existence. Usually I spend money where there is no need, which I have to control on. Just for example, purchasing things which are of no use at that point in time. I need to keep a check on it.

3. Egoistic:- I have even noticed that I become egoistic sometimes with the people with whom there is no need. Ego problem is not good for us to keep, Sometimes It harms you only in revert. Lets take an example of a friend, there is a friend and due to his/her busy schedule he/she is not able to contact you and the day passes although you want to be in contact, now the person who was busy can think that you did not even contacted him once, now here we think that the other person should contact first, and days passes you both forget each other, loses the comfort level between you 2, just because of a small ego you have lost a precious friend. On the other hand if he/she is your gf/bf you would have contact several times a day.

4. Thinking Big:- I have to start think big, I should start believing on the phrase "just because of your profit in present you should not ignore and forget that how it can impact your future"

5. Short temper:- Several times I have noticed that my temperament influenced me only, I have a weird experience of it. Three years back from now due to some dispute with my family member I turned 10,000 Rupees into many pieces, and that money was mine only, all my debit cards was snatched away from me by my parents, and I was out of money for couple of months. I still have to work on my temperament, because I have not learned anything from that instance.

Weaknesses on which I am working

My Saturday :-

On Friday when I was in office, one of my friend(don't want to disclose her name) called me on my phone and she said that I am going to meet you tommorow, then I said to her that we will talk in the morning due to my office hours, because i know that if we will start the conversation then it will go for hours and I never compromise with my work, because I heard a slang "Person who is not loyal to his work, he can't be loyal to anyone", and I am Mr. Dependable :-). When I reached home I called her and discussed all about, she said I am coming to your place @1pm but I suggested her that if you are opting for Metro then try coming to Noida Sector 18 as it is close to me as well and I will pick you from there.

I took a nap of 2.5 hours hardly, because she called me again and I woke up by her call, as considering that she would call me before a hour as she know my daily schedule, and I put my phone on ringing mode, otherwise when I go to sleep usually i put my phone silent because daily I receive around 20 messages and around 10 miscalls and I get interrupted during my sleep.

Journey Begins:-

I woke up and got ready the way picture is attached above. Picked keys of car and rushed to Noida sector 18, picked her from metro station. And then we decided to go to GIP as it was near by, sat over there for around an hour and discussed some things and also had meal from Mc Donald 3rd floor in GIP, she is recruitment HR, so she had to go to Munirka for some interview stuff, dropped here there in Munirka and came back to my place.
While coming from there I received a call from my friend who is also my neighbour, he said to me that we need to go to GIP and purchase movie ticket for HOUSE FULL.

Me With My Friends:-

When I reached him he and his cousin brother who is also my friend was also ready to go, they were waiting for me, now i have parked the car and decided to go through bikes... Both were sport bikes sort of.. one was Karizma and second was Yamaha FZ, going from my place to GIP we picked Toll Road but when we started rain tried to become our obstacle, but nobody can stop us, we continue our ride in rain only... now you can imagine a windy atmosphere with rain, and its a toll road and bikes were on speed of 120KPH. It was mind blowing. And the pic here is GIP 3rd floor. It was a co-incidence going to GIP and having something to eat from Mc Donald again on the same day but with different set of friends, there we enjoyed a lot. when we got bore from the mall we came to the open parking of GIP and was cracking jokes on each other and laughing. Coming back from there we opted to come from Kalindi Kunj, now this time I was riding Yamaha. And when I came home I did not know where I was after going to bed as I was so tiered.

Next Day(Sunday):-

Today I Woke up at 2PM, because last day I did not had my sufficient sleep and was tiered as well.
When I had a look on my phone it was around 20miscalls from my friend and 14 abusing messages that where the hell I am, because he has already booked movie ticket for us, I called him apologised for it and ran to him, because we don't want to miss the show, this time we were only two guys who went for the show at Shipra CSM Waves at sector 18 Noida, The first half of the movie was good, but later half was not so interesting, coming from there I was riding the bike, it was 10 at night when we were on the way to home, was feeling so hungry because I did not had anything whole day apart from some popcorn during the interval.

What I have observed:-

We really enjoy with different type of friends, but a person can enjoy friendly outing the most with their friend of same sex. Because If there is a group of guys and a girl is there then he can't be so out spoken, he has to be concious before delivering his words, and I think somewhat same is the case with girls, If she is with a guy or group of guys she can't be so comfortable as well, like she can be with the group of girls, but may be i can be wrong as well.

Uploading some pictures of some of my moments.