Tuesday, May 4, 2010

My Weakness




No one on Earth is perfect and everyone know this, Its just that if you know your weakness you can work on it to overcome the same. A best describer would be the person himself who can describe and judge on his own according to his strength and weakness. I think this is the high time now that I should start working on myself so that I should not relate myself into some consequences I have been through. Right now while writing all this stuff I am thinking of all my weaknesses on which I need to work and on which I am working.

Things on which I need to work

1. Saving:- No one on this planet can help you If you yourself is not financially strong. Need to follow the policies of an Insurance Company before they sell any policy to you, they say "anything can happen anywhere and anytime", you never know when you would be in need of funds for your basic needs. You can't ask for money from your family and friends if you are employed, and also asking people to lend me money is not my cup of tea. I have my own attitude.
2. Spend Less Money:- Though I know its very much related to the point above, but If I am not going to control this my first point would not come into existence. Usually I spend money where there is no need, which I have to control on. Just for example, purchasing things which are of no use at that point in time. I need to keep a check on it.


3. Egoistic:- I have even noticed that I become egoistic sometimes with the people with whom there is no need. Ego problem is not good for us to keep, Sometimes It harms you only in revert. Lets take an example of a friend, there is a friend and due to his/her busy schedule he/she is not able to contact you and the day passes although you want to be in contact, now the person who was busy can think that you did not even contacted him once, now here we think that the other person should contact first, and days passes you both forget each other, loses the comfort level between you 2, just because of a small ego you have lost a precious friend. On the other hand if he/she is your gf/bf you would have contact several times a day.

4. Thinking Big:- I have to start think big, I should start believing on the phrase "just because of your profit in present you should not ignore and forget that how it can impact your future"

5. Short temper:- Several times I have noticed that my temperament influenced me only, I have a weird experience of it. Three years back from now due to some dispute with my family member I turned 10,000 Rupees into many pieces, and that money was mine only, all my debit cards was snatched away from me by my parents, and I was out of money for couple of months. I still have to work on my temperament, because I have not learned anything from that instance.





Weaknesses on which I am working

Sunday, May 2, 2010

This is My Weekend

My Saturday :-
On Friday when I was in office, one of my friend(don't want to disclose her name) called me on my phone and she said that I am going to meet you tommorow, then I said to her that we will talk in the morning due to my office hours, because i know that if we will start the conversation then it will go for hours and I never compromise with my work, because I heard a slang "Person who is not loyal to his work, he can't be loyal to anyone", and I am Mr. Dependable :-). When I reached home I called her and discussed all about, she said I am coming to your place @1pm but I suggested her that if you are opting for Metro then try coming to Noida Sector 18 as it is close to me as well and I will pick you from there.
I took a nap of 2.5 hours hardly, because she called me again and I woke up by her call, as considering that she would call me before a hour as she know my daily schedule, and I put my phone on ringing mode, otherwise when I go to sleep usually i put my phone silent because daily I receive around 20 messages and around 10 miscalls and I get interrupted during my sleep.

 Journey Begins:-
I woke up and got ready the way picture is attached above. Picked keys of car and rushed to Noida sector 18, picked her from metro station. And then we decided to go to GIP as it was near by, sat over there for around an hour and discussed some things and also had meal from Mc Donald 3rd floor in GIP, she is recruitment HR, so she had to go to Munirka for some interview stuff, dropped here there in Munirka and came back to my place.
While coming from there I received a call from my friend who is also my neighbour, he said to me that we need to go to GIP and purchase movie ticket for HOUSE FULL.


                                                 
Me With My Friends:-
When I reached him he and his cousin brother who is also my friend was also ready to go, they were waiting for me, now i have parked the car and decided to go through bikes... Both were sport bikes sort of.. one was Karizma and second was Yamaha FZ, going from my place to GIP we picked Toll Road but when we started rain tried to become our obstacle, but nobody can stop us, we continue our ride in rain only... now you can imagine a windy atmosphere with rain, and its a toll road and bikes were on speed of 120KPH. It was mind blowing. And the pic here is GIP 3rd floor. It was a co-incidence going to GIP and having something to eat from Mc Donald again on the same day but with different set of friends, there we enjoyed a lot. when we got bore from the mall we came to the open parking of GIP and was cracking jokes on each other and laughing. Coming back from there we opted to come from Kalindi Kunj, now this time I was riding Yamaha. And when I came home I did not know where I was after going to bed as I was so tiered.

Next Day(Sunday):-
Today I Woke up at 2PM, because last day I did not had my sufficient sleep and was tiered as well.
When I had a look on my phone it was around 20miscalls from my friend and 14 abusing messages that where the hell I am, because he has already booked movie ticket for us, I called him apologised for it and ran to him, because we don't want to miss the show, this time we were only two guys who went for the show at Shipra CSM Waves at sector 18 Noida, The first half of the movie was good, but later half was not so interesting, coming from there I was riding the bike, it was 10 at night when we were on the way to home, was feeling so hungry because I did not had anything whole day apart from some popcorn during the interval.

What I have observed:-
We really enjoy with different type of friends, but a person can enjoy friendly outing the most with their friend of same sex. Because If there is a group of guys and a girl is there then he can't be so out spoken, he has to be concious before delivering his words, and I think somewhat same is the case with girls, If she is with a guy or group of guys she can't be so comfortable as well, like she can be with the group of girls, but may be i can be wrong as well.

Uploading some pictures of some of my moments.

               At Parking Lot
Watching movie
Getting Fuel for our Bikes


Hotel Raddison night view and Sweet Corn shop outside Waves







Friday, April 30, 2010

Puraani Yaadein.. & Training Yesterday

I was going through my old pictures and found one of the pic which was clicked 2.5 years back from now.
When my organization was just struggling to stand on its own.
We were around 300 people in my organization, and was working under surveillance, now we have made our own entity, with around 2000 people working for it, and there is no need to give a brief about my organization, as it has already boomed very rapidly in an Insurance Sector.
You can say that my company has grown in front of my eyes in India, though its established long time back in U.S.A.. When I got recruited for it people hardly have an idea about its existence here, but now people of the same sector are dying to get hired.

Many people left the organization and moved some where else, in the above pic only 4 people are still rendering their services by keeping faith with their employer, and I am one of them. This was the Team which made the ground rules for the process which is making good revenues for the organization currently.

Business Executive Presence:-
I got the training yesterday for BEP, this training gives the thorough knowledge that how management actually thinks and derive results from their employees. Because they want us to have a leadership skills in us, You can also go through the book "Like a CEO".
That training was useful for me to understand several things.
1. Attrition rate:-
It means percentage of people leaving the organization, and the impact of the same.
2. Attendance:-
How much attendance you want to fulfill according to your client's need, and if the attendance decreases what impact it left over the organization in monitory terms.
3. Role of Supervisor:-
They taught us that how you have to manage things when you will
be at their level, and how exactly your management thinks as of now.
4. BCP(Business Continuity Planning):-
BCP is the term derived for continuing of the business if any natural mis-happening has occoured into your Office premises, for example Fire & Earth-quake. This is the plan which would have a overlook for the safety of the employees, and business should also not suffer on the other hand.
   5. Root cause analysis:-
Whenever we look at something we just see the output or result to make our own decisions and ignore that how exactly that thing works, lets take an example of TREE... If someone talks with you about the trees on Earth, most probably first picture which will come to your mind is green leaves, fruits which it produce, a brown trunk, but you will never think of that how that tree is managing to stand on the surface, how roots are helpful for it, how much sun light air and carbon-di-oxide helps it to grow, an another good example would be a Movie, whenever we go ta watch movie, we just see how is story line up, music, and how people has acted into it, but we never think of the responsible people behind it which make it successfull to release in market like Director, Producer, Choreographer, Music Director, and also a Spot boy who has the responsibility to overcome the small and tiny needs of the people working for that movie.

Have learned several things, which might be or might not be useful for you, as I am sharing here. Always remember "SOME THINGS ARE GOOD TO KNOW, AND SOME THINGS ARE NEED TO KNOW".
And this part comes under Good To Know Section as this helps you to think big, as well as Need To Know which makes you understand that where exactly your organization stand internally.

Suggestion:-
If you are attending any of the training, wether you are in the corporate world, school or college, or into some seminar, you just need your eyes & mind to be wide open. You never know which module can become useful for you in coming future. Its just you who need to get focused.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Speed breakers

Sometimes we are running at our steady pace in our life, and suddenly you get to know that there is a speed breaker ahead, what all measures you can think of, because that speed breaker can impact you in several ways.
  • May be you can slower down your speed.
  • May be you can get disbalance.
  • May be you can fall down, and start again for the same speed.
  • May be you can rise in air for fraction of seconds.
  • Or may be you are out of the game now.
But overall we get impact...
A small breaker is coming on my way. Lets see what gonna happen

BREAKING NEWS:- People in my office planning to go out of Delhi for 2 days on this weekend, I am not sure that this planning is going to be modulated, If this plan comes into picture, then for sure I would be the part of it, Rishikesh and Haridwar may be the place.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Why We Compromise Always

Compromises:-
This is the word which we see in our daily routine, most of the time we have to face it, then your family, friends and close ones.
Everyone has their own right to express themself, If we think we are right then why we bring this word "Compromise" in between. And this word usually come into existence when we are attached emotionally with someone, people with whom you are attached and for whom you are compromising should also understand us, that we are not happy but for your happiness we are compromising.

Recent experience:-
Had a phone conversation with one of my friend yesterday, and that friend is a girl, though she is getting married in couple of months, but still she is not happy as most of the time a bride is very much excited before her marriage, she don't believe in love kind of thing, but she is compromising, I dig into it and try to know the reason that why she was not happy. Because she is getting married for her family, although she is not mentally prepared for it.
Is this the correct time for her to get marry? A BIG "NO"
This relation might not work for her. Why our family don't understand sometimes that what a child wants, living socially is good, but why we are getting killed for the sake of socialism.
It was just an example. Lets bring different things into picture.

1. Gf compromising for Bf:-
Several times I have noticed that a boy friend wants all her time, she also have many friends but because of his boy she maintain distance from the rest, and if he see her talking to a guy who is a stranger, then aaahh she has to give tons of explanations,I mean common she want her own space, at the end its her life so let her live. The biggest compromise of a girl she has to leave her home after getting married.
2. BF compromise for Gf:-
If a guy is in love with a girl and he is got engaged with some of his work, in the regular intervals complaint box gets full from the girl, and the guy has to come up to all her complaints, otherwise she thinks she made the bad decision being with him, and the biggest compromise guys do they live separately after getting married from his parents just because she is not comfortable with guy's family, he forgets that he is into a existence because of his parents, Please.... when you people will grow, they are your parents they need you primarily, our first priority should be our parents only who vanished themselves for us. Its your parents who has more rights on us.
3. Children compromise for their Parents:-
When we are kids, we don't get enough time from our parents, because they are busy to earn, and do not understand that some of their time is meant for us also. And when we become a grown up child, they want us to study according to their interest, don't even bother that what talent we have and in what field, and when we are in age to get married, and if by mistake we are in love with someone, according to them it is a blunder which we have done, they don't even think of our feelings, always give more importance to social values rather then their own children feelings.





3. Compromise with Siblings.
4. Compromise with close ones.
5. Compromise with Friends.
6. Compromise with the Company rules you are working in.

IT IS REALLY SO MANDATORY TO COMPROMISE IN OUR DAY TO DAY LIFE, IF WE ARE LIVING IN THIS WORLD DO WE HAVE TO COMPROMISE ALL THE TIME.

Still searching for many answers.........

Monday, April 26, 2010

IJP(Internal Job Posting)


IJP(Internal Job Posting):-
First of all let me tell you what an IJP is...
Its an internal movement within the organization, for growth perspective, If you have applied for an IJP, you have to go through several formalities within the organization, like interview & sharing your thoughts regarding the post you have applied for, and what all you have done and accomplished in your past.
With the description above I think you got it what I am talking about.

An IJP with me:-
I can't Imagine how I can be so weird and foolish, Two week back I have applied for an IJP, and I knew that any time I can go within the procedure of it.
Most of the time I am in professionals, but on this very day I was in casuals, you can make out with the pic above on the right, which was clicked before going to work. My Supervisor told me that you have to go through interview today for the IJP you have applied, and I was like.... look at me looking like a bully. A bearded man, can you even imagine a guy with the pic above going for an interview for some high level. I was so embarrassed before going for it.  
                                

     I knew that before going for something serious which is related to my work I should look professional, because presenting yourself is the best way from which you make anyone to hire you for the best suitable job, Your body posture how you are presenting yourself add on to the total points. Well my overall interview according to me was good, but I don't know what perception they got from me. It is really a close call, because there are around 30-50 people who applied for this and I have to compete with all of them. If the things gone right in the proper way I want to, I am just hoping and keeping my fingers crossed for my next role, I have given my 100% but future is un-forseen, you never know what is going to happen. Becuase "Beyond your fate and before the time you will never get the things you are wishing for."   

Conclusion:- 
If you have work profile with the brand name or wether you are into your own business, try to be professional everytime during working hours, because you never know when your life is going to click. And perform at your best and become a good competitor, because without showing your comptitive skills your "Career" "Success" & "Growth" are not going to follow you.
                                                         

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Delhi Knight Riders


 Went to India Gate today:-

After getting so many complaints from my family that I don't give time to them.

All my time is dedicated to my friends and my work, I took my family for a Night out. I postponed all my friend invitations to meet them. Gave tons of explanations to them to make them understand about my situation that I have to give time to my family also, just keeping my fingers crossed because i don't want my friends to be angry.Everyone has their own place with me.

 They want party from KFC:-

This was the second time in a row i have been to KFC, Yesterday it was my friend who took me there, and today my family members want to have meals from there. I was not that much interested to have something to eat from there, but no other option, every relation needs compromises if you really value that relation. And I have been through that compromise only, though no-one was able to find from my expressions on my face that I don't want this. But my nephews are with me so was playing with them.
You can also have a look on pic she is my Ada standing in front of KFC Parlour at Cannaught Place. From here we turned towards India Gate...

Then to India Gate:-

After making our bucket empty over here on grass, Me Ada and Farry played football, and had Ice-Cream, We also planned for boating here as children were very much keen for this activity,but we parked our car at a good distance from boating area, and it was not manageable to carry a 3 year old baby in so crowded place. It was really so good playing with kids.


Suggestion time:-

Must give appropriate time to your family accordingly, It gives a immense pleasure, and sometimes you should also become a child with children, you can't be in your past again, but you can bring your past to your present becoming a child. 

A Day at GIP(Great India Place)


As Yesterday was saturday, and a fun day, So I decided to go to GIP(Great India Place).

GIP(Great India Place:-
Well telling about this place, it is situated in Noida opposite to Sector 18. A place where one can go with their friends to hang around, There is a Park adjacent to it, A Fun Park, where you can have the adventureous rides, and its not too costly as well, around 500 bucks per person.

Now about this small trip:
We, me and Gul(friend), decided to go there and do shopping and hang around. Most of the time we prefer to go to this place through bike, Gul is having Yamaha FZ, which is somewhat like a sport bike, We have 2 ways to reach this place one is from Kalindi and another is from Toll Road, We pick the Toll Rd. as it is one of the finest roads in India. And you can enjoy riding there insted of driving. But at the beginning it was horrible as Thulla's stopped us for checking and we don't even have Driving Liscence apart from Bike papers, even we don't have helmets to wear. It took around 20 minutes for us to bribe them with Rupees 200.

When we reached there we thought to have some KFC's Chicken, as it s one of our routine that if we are going to GIP we have to have some Crunchy chicken, After that went to Big Bazaar for some shopping, purchased some outfits from there...If you are going to Big Bazaar in GIP, you also should try Chinese Chaat which is easily available there, so as we did, though we were full :-), after spending around 3 hours there when we were about to leave that place Gul purchased some gifts for his GF(Silly Gul) :-), I hate purchasing girlish items to gift a girl, and thank God I am Single.
Coming back from there we again took the same route from Toll Rd. in 15 minutes we were at our place, but decided not to go home so early.

 So we went to the Community center at NFC(New Friend's Colony).:-
 It is a local place and 5 minutes away from home, It is a small full fledge Market, You can find everything here like Mc.D, Pizza Hut, Dominos, Nirulas, Some Pubs, and lots of shops for window shopping,If we do not get any idea where to go, then this is the place where one can find us easily.
There we enjoyed a lot, Actually Gul is a good story teller, He usually tells funny stories of his friends which includes some nudity, and we both were like ROFL(rolling on the floor), SO FUNNY.
After spending 2 hours there we were back to home. :-)

Friday, April 23, 2010

Add on to my Liquid Asset

Today I got Hike to my Liquid Asset, though I am not happy with it.
Because my expectations were more then that, and I deserve as well.
I think my company is not a good Pay Master though its a Brand name. I am very much attached to my current employer,
do not want to quit with it... but my management aaaahhh, no words, though I am left with no grudges for them.
Although they are good personally, helps me in every field, still I am getting demoralise day by day.

Twice or thrice it has been asked by me that how you are going to rate 3 things in your life.
  1. Money
  2. Growth
  3. Movement.
I think I have a right perception that If you will get Growth, rest 2 things will follow you automatically.
But I am unable to see Growth in my current profile.
Have tons of things to share about but due to my company policy I can't share internal things in public, and I respect the VALUES of my Employer.
Several time I have prove myself being a asset to it, but I am not getting the same revert..
Well Well Well... after this I am not interested for any sort job or any change, sooner or later if I get the opportunity I would rather like to skip over to my own business. And I know the way I have devoted myself to the job, If I will devote 50% of it to my business I am going to capitalise huge amount.
Feeling very very very bad :-(.
Rather i should blame myself for this as I have taken some bad decesions in my past due to which my present and future is getting impact.

Still I am the man who have faith on the sentence "EVERYTIME GOD DOES NOT SUPPORT US FOR EVERYTHING WE WISH FOR, BECAUSE HE HAS DECIDED SOMETHING WHICH IS FOR OUR BETTERMENT."

Thursday, April 22, 2010

My Thoughts For Myself

One of my thought.
I have a thinking why being a part of crowd if you can make your own sensational entity.
I always wanted to be something different, people usually say that m mad, but that's their perception, i will live my life the way i want to....
I you have any problem with it, and keeping any -ve image about me ....
Then DAMN... I Hardly Care .

Oh yes... I have a good collection of Tie's & Shades still collecting them.
People thinking to gift these things to me... not a good idea, because for Tie's I have to see wether colour and the pattern will suit me or not, and the same goes for shades. :-) You can consult me before Lols :-).
I am very passionate about my Apparels.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

My Team, Small world @ Office

This my team at office.....
Some are vintage people here some are new....
I have a good relation with all of them And also respect them....
You must have heard about the phrase when you were child "A Friend in need is a friend indeed"
I will totally dedicate this phrase to my team , who are very much responsible for my existence in this world otherwise i would have disappeared somewhere.
I am deeply in touch with some of the people here. The guy next to me is closest to me.

Names mentioned below from the left to right starting from the people standing, then who all are sitting.......
1. Preet Kanwal Singh 2. Athota Gopala Krishna 3. Mahesh Jakhwal 4. Pranay Chatterjee 5 Mukesh Kumar 6. Anuj Kumar 7. Kamal Kishor Sharma 8. Sudhanshu Kumar 9. Arun Paul 10. Chandan Goyal 11. Me(Arsh) 12. Shankha Lashka 13. Gagandeep Kaur. 14 Charu Babbar 15. Somnath Arora 15. Jyoti Jain 16. Sanjay Dubey.

Some people are missing from here as they were on their leaves.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Sunday 18th April 2010


I went to join dance class.
As people who knows about me know that this is one of my hobby :-).
Whenever i am in a good mood i just love to dance, though I am not an expert.

Apart from this I am also thinking to play a instrument.
Thinking to learn and be a drummer.
You must have seen in rock band.

Sunday, April 18, 2010

My Big B cum friend....:-) A gr8 singer


He is my elder bro...
will share soon about him as well..
As of now I must tell you that we are real bros... but moreover we r lyk friends,
what I have seen that siblings are not so comfortable sharing things with each other which are personel, but this thing is not existing between us,
He is putting up in Mumbai and m in Delhi,
but wheneva we have tym we are on phone with each to tell what all happened on the day.

Now-a-days he is into a business and he has a hobby to sing as well.
Hellow Guys....
Its me who is the owner of this blog
I made this Blog to share my thoughts to the world...

Whenever I would have something to share....
I will be posting and update you about it.